1. Define your personal boundaries of modesty
Agree that each person has his own understanding of modesty, which is largely due to the level of education. For one person to be humble is to be silent in a rag, getting an unjust catch up, and for another - to break an opponent’s arm in the dispute, not two legs. You need to determine your personal boundaries of the permissible, because, in fact, modesty is a virtue, but only in the modern labor market such shyness and shyness does not belong.
2. Modesty does not give a taste of success
Every victory is a joy, a feeling of happiness. When you are praised for a job well done, you feel a surge of strength, the release of hormones of joy and the ability to further collapse innocent mountains. And is it possible that having completed the five-year plan in five minutes, you will deprive yourself of the pleasure of accepting congratulations and swimming in the glory? Do not let false modesty ruin the moment of victory, because it is precisely such events that you will remember in old age.
3. No one will know what you are worth.
Indulging our humility, we often sit and just expect that all our actions will speak for us. We assume that if you stay focused and work hard, we no longer need to fuss about anything - our efforts will definitely see and appreciate. But if you are too modest, then the authorities may not know how much good you bring to the organization.
4. You yourself will not know what you are worth.
Do not let modesty plunge yourself into the abyss of contentment with a comfort zone. Do not be afraid to truly express the skills and qualities that make you unique.
5. People use humble
If you recognize a lover to turn your cheeks for blows, be prepared for slaps and the fact that you will be used more often. Accumulated grievances will develop into depression, nervous stress and chronic constipation. Do you need it?
6. You are not recognized as a leader
Each leader had to make tough and unpopular decisions, taking full responsibility for the consequences of these decisions. With excessive modesty, deciding the fate of people may not come out.
7. Modesty affects the ability to earn money
Negotiation is a skill set where there is no room for humility. This can be a business meeting or a banal interview. If you take everything for granted, it is very unlikely that you will receive what you deserve.
Agree that each person has his own understanding of modesty, which is largely due to the level of education. For one person to be humble is to be silent in a rag, getting an unjust catch up, and for another - to break an opponent’s arm in the dispute, not two legs. You need to determine your personal boundaries of the permissible, because, in fact, modesty is a virtue, but only in the modern labor market such shyness and shyness does not belong.
2. Modesty does not give a taste of success
Every victory is a joy, a feeling of happiness. When you are praised for a job well done, you feel a surge of strength, the release of hormones of joy and the ability to further collapse innocent mountains. And is it possible that having completed the five-year plan in five minutes, you will deprive yourself of the pleasure of accepting congratulations and swimming in the glory? Do not let false modesty ruin the moment of victory, because it is precisely such events that you will remember in old age.
3. No one will know what you are worth.
Indulging our humility, we often sit and just expect that all our actions will speak for us. We assume that if you stay focused and work hard, we no longer need to fuss about anything - our efforts will definitely see and appreciate. But if you are too modest, then the authorities may not know how much good you bring to the organization.
4. You yourself will not know what you are worth.
Do not let modesty plunge yourself into the abyss of contentment with a comfort zone. Do not be afraid to truly express the skills and qualities that make you unique.
5. People use humble
If you recognize a lover to turn your cheeks for blows, be prepared for slaps and the fact that you will be used more often. Accumulated grievances will develop into depression, nervous stress and chronic constipation. Do you need it?
6. You are not recognized as a leader
Each leader had to make tough and unpopular decisions, taking full responsibility for the consequences of these decisions. With excessive modesty, deciding the fate of people may not come out.
7. Modesty affects the ability to earn money
Negotiation is a skill set where there is no room for humility. This can be a business meeting or a banal interview. If you take everything for granted, it is very unlikely that you will receive what you deserve.
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